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Okay friends, when you think of porn, are you immediately turned off? We hear that.
It is still not an easy task to find porn that you actually want to watch, a website featuring hot, good porn that doesn’t overwhelmingly prioritize the male gaze or the male orgasm. Sure, you can wade through the various videos to find one where female pleasure and the over-the-top (faked) female orgasm are the focus — but even then, there’s the distinct feeling that because of the way she’s being filmed, there is still a man calling the shots. Let’s be honest, even if you’re watching it with a male partner, you may get the sense that the porn you’re trying to enjoy isn’t for you. And that can make it harder to lose yourself in the story or the sensations the way you’d want to.
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So, where are the porn sites that cater to the female gaze, that honor female sexuality in all its beautiful forms and that don’t objectify women in a way that will have you ready to take a shower immediately after viewing (in a bad way)? Where are the porn sites that feel current and up to date with what we want from sexual media today?
Fear no more, friend, because we have found some legitimately great porn sites for you. If you’re tired of porn that feels overwhelmingly straight, cis-male-centric, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the following selection of sites. And while we’re at it, it’s probably the right time to treat yourself to some new sex toys too, for good measure.
Please take care, though and don’t browse this one at your desk — because you’ll be able to access some NSFW websites from here on out. Click with caution and, when it’s time for You-time, have fun!
A version of this story was published on April 2018.
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Quinn
Image Credit: SheKnows Audioerotica stays a fave for erotic content in 2023 — and while it’s not “porn” it is something you can get off to knowing it’s made ethically and with your tastes in mind. Quinn, for example, is particularly cool with it’s super user-friendly interface, cast of sensual and totally dreamy voices and curated and inclusive playlists to hit all of your tastes.
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Dipsea
Image Credit: SheKnows Okay one more audio erotica, just for fun. Dipsea is yet another excellent introduction to how sexy and fun it can be to tune in and listen to some sexy voices. With its clean and beautiful interface, inclusive and diverse casting and thoughtful and consent-minded stories, you’ll love to plug in and enjoy pretty much everything in their library.
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Bellesa
Image Credit: SheKnows Imagine if Pornhub or RedTube became way, way more unapologetically female-friendly — that, dear friends, is Bellesa.
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Sssh.com
Image Credit: SheKnows Billed as a “smart and sexy erotic destination for women, by women,” Sssh.com allows you to access a variety of content, from videos to reading materials, that is geared toward women.
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XConfessions
Image Credit: SheKnows Created by feminist adult filmmaker Erika Lust, XConfessions brings very real, very sexy stories submitted by various folks to life.
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Literotica
Image Credit: SheKnows If you’re more stimulated by words than images (or maybe need a quieter, more stealth porn session), head over to Literotica and let your imagination run wild thanks to the enticing stories submitted there.
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Vivid-Ed
Image Credit: SheKnows Part of Vivid Entertainment and run by sex educator and podcaster Tristan Taormino, Vivid-Ed lives up to its name, with articles, movies, photos and more to help you become your best sexual being.
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Kink
Image Credit: SheKnows Whether you are sure kinky sex acts are your vibe or you’d like to test the waters, Kink provides the videos you need to help get you where you want to go — sexually speaking, that is.
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Dusk
Image Credit: SheKnows Dusk is a subscription-based site, but it offers a variety of educational articles as well as very sexy viewing materials for women.
